my blue-collar background failed me on THIS

Hey Reader,

I don't come from money, but I did grow up in an affluent area.

Neither of my parents had corporate jobs. They worked tirelessly owning their own businesses instead.

It's clear where I caught the entrepreneurial bug from, but this blue-collar background meant I wasn't like my friends.

Their parents came home from work at 5pm. They talked about their day at dinner. They absorbed lessons about how the workplace really worked -- the unwritten rules, the politics, the things that matter but no one tells you.

I didn't get that.

But I did have something else: I was perceptive. Sensitive, even.

I understood people. I paid attention to what wasn't being said:

  • The tension in a room
  • The shift in someone's tone
  • The subtext underneath the words.

That skill led me to study psychology, become a licensed therapist, and eventually build a company helping professionals decode what's REALLY happening around them at work.

What I've learned from working with thousands of clients is...

You can be 10, 15, even 20 years into your career and still feel like you're missing the handbook.

You're good at your job. You deliver results. But you're still trying to figure out how to navigate the politics, how to communicate in ways that make executives actually listen, how to position yourself for the next level when the rules feel unclear.

That's why I created my best-selling coaching program, Speak Like a Senior Leader™.

Doors for the next cohort open very soon in early December.

Spots sold out in record time the first round. And I'm capping enrollment again because the program includes live coaching, and I want to make sure everyone gets the attention they need.

The best way to secure your spot?

RSVP for my free LIVE training on December 3rd...

--> Earn Up to $200k More in 2026: 5 Steps to Speak Like a Senior Leader"

I'll be opening doors during that training, plus you'll get the exact roadmap to distill your ideas quickly, handle pushback without getting defensive, and position your work in ways that get you pulled into bigger conversations.

NEW EPISODE: 5 Types of Power to Build Influence Without Playing Dirty

I don't know about you, but I have certainly seen people throughout my career who have this certain... je ne sais quoi. There's something about them where people just respect them.

In this episode, I break down the 5 types of power that determine who gets heard, who gets ahead, and who gets overlooked, regardless of job title or intelligence. This framework turns office politics from something frustrating and opaque into something you can actually decode and navigate strategically.

What You’ll Discover:

▪️ How to leverage your place in the hierarchy without coming across as authoritarian or controlling

▪️ The type of power that can take years to build but seconds to destroy

▪️ The diagnostic questions that reveal where your influence comes from right now – and what power base to build next

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FREE TRAINING: You're Invited to "Earn Up to $200k More in 2026"

Look, there's a lot outside your control right now – economic uncertainty, budget freezes, organizational changes.

But you can absolutely influence the level of polish, precision, and presence you bring to every interaction.

And in times when opportunities feel scarce, nailing THIS is what sets you apart from everyone else who's just waiting for things to get better.

At my upcoming free training on December 3rd 5pm ET, I'll show you micro-adjustments you can make today that will compound into major career advantages.

And I’ll walk you through the roadmap my clients at Fortune 500 companies have used to get up to 40% raises, even when budgets are tight and competition is fierce.

>> Save your spot

See you inside,

MELODY WILDING, LMSW

2x Best-selling Author, Therapist Turned Award-Winning Executive Coach, Human Behavior Professor

PO Box 281, Bloomingdale, New Jersey 07403
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